it’s via the woman. if a man adheres to religion to become a better human that is his banner.
same with the woman in this case.
your ideal is to become a better person you need the intuition of marriage to discourage your carnal desires.
it’s not the foundation of manhood tho.
^ that fact that you called bullshit on my belief, says enough.
The woman is who I found best to carry out my design… It could of easily had been the military, college, humanitarian efforts etc. At the end of the day she is an instrument or tool, to help assist with my predetermined course.